We're expecting our first child in a matter of months. My wife's employer doesn't provide paid leave so we've tried to rearrange the budget so we can soften the blow of lost income. I had a thought... can you delay a mortgage payment 1 or 2 months and add those months on the end? My wife's employer requires a delivering mother to use their paid time off and any time after that is without pay. They comply with the Family Medical Leave Act where she is guaranteed her job upon return but without short term disability there won't be anything coming in terms of income. Granted, we're financially stable but our biggest bill (our mortgage) scares us a little and we're trying to find ways to pay it for 2-3 months along with medical bills and needs of a newborn. So, maybe we're just overreacting but we'd like to be better safe than sorry.