Software for money management

Help me micromanage my household money! What software program should I use? What Windows software programs are out there that will easily help me import bank statements (such as .qif files) and combine that with debts, small bits of stock holdings, etc, to show my equity and how it's doing? I'd also like something that can help me set budgets. Graphs and visualizations are great. I have a copy of Quicken 2000, which will probably work okay, though it's a bit on the side of bloatware and a bit kludgy to use, so I'm seeing if maybe there's a better approach to this that I've missed. I suppose setting up a spreadsheet is the other alternative, though that might be tough filling in 100 bank transactions a month.